My name is Shivaram Kumar and after two and a half decades of working with people from every conceivable race, religion, ethnicity, language, nationality and orientation, empowering them with self-belief and confidence, my wife Anjali and I know for sure that words make all the difference. The words we listen to, and the words we speak.
The aim with this blog is to make people aware of the power of words, because once we know how to surround and program ourselves with the right words, we can collectively increase self-esteem in society. Looking forward to get with you on our exciting journey called life and benefit from our stories and experiences.
Let my words play a small positive role in your world.
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Crazy! Can this really happen?
Mali is a great friend. He was next door to me in Ruby hostel at REC, Trichy. One time we were talking about nail-biting finishes and he shared a story about his friend Kalyanaraman from high school who managed to get the last seat in Chemical Engineering at the prestigious IIT Madras (now Chennai).
A year or so later I was in the city of Coimbatore, waiting for a bus. It started to rain and a guy wearing gold rimmed glasses, about my age, offered to share his umbrella.
“Are you an engineering student?” I asked. He nodded.
“IIT Madras?”
He was a little startled, and he nodded again.
“Chemical Engineering?”
“Wait, is this some sort of a trick?” He asked.
“Did you get the last seat in Chemical Engineering?”
He was evidently confused and taken aback.
“Yes….”
“You must be Kalyanaraman”.
Mind you, I had never seen him or talked about him since my brief talk with Mali a year prior. No internet, no way I could have looked him up.
Freaky? Wait, it is not over…
About two and a half years later (during the mid- late eighties) while I was doing my Masters at Drexel in Philadelphia, I was trying to locate my friend Narasimhan (Nurse for short). I finally found his phone number. His roommate picked up the phone and said “Hello?” And for some reason, I asked “Is this Kalyanaraman?” And it was. I had only spoken to him once before at the bus stand.
Ready for one more?
During a summer break from Drexel, I was driving with a friend to Rhode Island. I was narrating the Kalyan phenomenon to them and as he was reacting to my story, my eyes glanced over to the car to my left, and guess who was sitting on the passenger side in the back? You guessed it- Kalyanaraman!
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There is no particular lesson or takeaway from the Kalyan story. However, each time I tell it, it brings joy and amazement to my audience. So I felt I should include it as a post. It is great that life throws these delightful surprises at us. I don’t know where Kalyan is now, nor have I met him since. I am in a plane now with Anjali, on our way to San Jose, Napa and Sacramento. We are in seats 3E &3F. Wonder who is in 4E or 4F? Let me look…
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5 Responses to “Crazy! Can this really happen?”
Amazing!!! My engineer mind wants to find out how.. The awe and magic is in leaving reasoning alone for some time! Fun!!!
wow , Amazing things happen in life !!!
I don’t know what to comment, but reading this brought me to know, life throws on the thing which we don’t expect. I could relate to the similar experience which happened to me , but not to this extent as Kalyanaraman surprised.
Life surprises !!!!
Oh my god! Absolutely hilarious & freaky. ?
This phenomenon is called synchronicity and its often mistaken as a coincidence. These signs were universal nods that confirmed you are on the right track. I believe these syncronicities happen when you are in perfect alignment with the universal energies. Thank you for sharing.