What happened to Jack?

Attitude, Self-Esteem

There are many “good old days” that I do not  miss. Like sitting in a class in primary (elementary and middle) and secondary school (9th & 10th grade). I can count the classes I enjoyed with one hand – 9th & 10th grade English, Math and Physics. Only because the teachers seemed to care and knew how to mix some fun into the process. I have never particularly cared for a daily repetitive routine that feels like a rut, be it school or a job. I was christened “junglee” on the first day of pre-school (nursery) by the teacher in response to my ferocious protests to being carried into a class by force by a concerned mother and aunt. As a side note, the English word jungle comes from the Hindi word jangal which has a Sanskrit origin. A junglee would be an anglicized Hindi version of belonging to the jungle as in Tarzan, or more like his ape friend. It is strange, but I still remember that day- my mother holding my arms, my aunt holding my feet, and the teacher jostling for any body part that would keep me from flailing and swaying.

Soon after, I put my hand up in class and asked my teacher-

“What happened to Jack?”

The teacher, already wary, now confused.

“What?” (There were no polite “Excuse me”s then)

“What happened to Jack after he broke his crown?” I inquired “Did they take him to the hospital? Did the ambulance come?”

“I don’t know” said the teacher, “it doesn’t say here. Don’t ask any questions!”

So I suffered through the London Bridge falling down, Humpty Dumpty falling apart, the ring around the roses turning into ash, wondering why all these nursery rhymes were oh, so tragic. But I did not dare ask another question. Years later I would teach people about the importance of positive affirmation. I would wonder out loud if early negative programming like these rhymes had anything to do with the epidemic of low self-esteem in the world.

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Words are powerful. They program our brains and create beliefs. While we cannot control every word that comes at us, we have to be aware of what we are putting into our brains. The subconscious mind cannot take a joke, it doesn’t understand wrong from right, it simply accepts what we put in. So our motto should be Good In, Good Out.